Alright folks, I got the closer for the month, and I hope this one raises some eyebrows, stirs up conversations, and makes ya think.
So allow me to first and foremost state that if and when I find myself in a committed relationship with a young lady I am always a faithful man. BUT, I'm not in a relationship....
So now that I've gotten that out of the way, let's begin.
The HomeWrecker. What is a Homewrecker? Someone please tell me, cause no matter how many time theses girls (and some dudes) tell me its me, I do not agree.
You see, I'm a single man, and we all know men are hunters, predators who's only concern is to catch its prey.
I personally don't have a "Type" per say, I like all women, Short, Tall, Slim, Round, Black, White, Spanish, Orange, some younger and almost all older, I don't discriminate. So naturally I'm attracted to all different type of women, and many different types of women are attracted to me. Now, some of these women have boyfriends or husbands or whatever it is they call there spouses and this is where it get interesting. See the way I see it is like this: If you have a man, and I come across your path and you choose to give me play then guess what, the cheater in this situation is YOU! That's right I said it. I mean think about it, how could I possibly be cheating if I'm not committed to anyone.
People often say, "Well if you knew she had a man then you are just as wrong as she is for cheating" are you effin serious? C'mon man. Unless the girl I am dealing with is the girlfriend, fiancé, or wife of a close friend or family member (Which I would NEVER under any circumstance violate no matter what) then my loyalty is not to her man, therefore I cannot be wrong for pokin his girl. You see, I'm a straight shooter, I keep it real all the time, and I've said it before, I'll say it again, (Fellas listen up) if you catch your girl cheatin, don't be mad or don't worry bout who it is she was cheatin with. That man has nothin to do with you nor does he owe you anything. The one you need to be mad at is your girl. She's the one who violated you, she's the one who stepped out of the "Home" and "Wrecked" it. You see where I'm goin with this? This is why I can't consider myself a home wrecker. I'm a man like any other, I'm just a squirrel tryna get a nut. You would do the same thing if you were in my shoes.
Don't get me wrong, I don't want ya to think that I soley go for the women who have men, I don't get dressed when I go out and think "Oh man, imma find me a bad joint and I hope she has a man" No, in fact sometimes I don't even know til after I get off of them that they have a man. Your probably thinkin: "Well did you ask if she had a man?" Hell No I didn't ask, what the f+#k does her man have to do with me? I'm tryna bone her, not her man. In other words, she knew what this was, she knew my intentions and she KNEW she had a man, yet she still dealt with me. Now you tell me, who wrecked the home? Was it really me? No.
See if my Home (Relationship) is Robbed (I'm cheated on) and I see no signs of forced entry, or a breaking an entering, then its obvious that the person who robbed me was someone who lives here. Chances are I'm sleeping with the enemy.
I could go on forever with this topic. So for now I'll leave it at that. Feel free to leave me comments here or send me emails: (EnoBull@tmo.blackberry.net) hit me on BBM (pin:2113693f) or leave a FaceBook Comment (Eno Bull) or Tag me in a Tweet (@EnoBull) because I love this topic and will defend my stand til the music stops. I really wanna know how ya feel about it.
So like I said, the true meaning of a HomeWrecker, is he or she within the home, not the one who is passin by, just remember that and all will be fine.
Stay Up, Stay Faithful and Stay Tuned
So allow me to first and foremost state that if and when I find myself in a committed relationship with a young lady I am always a faithful man. BUT, I'm not in a relationship....
So now that I've gotten that out of the way, let's begin.
The HomeWrecker. What is a Homewrecker? Someone please tell me, cause no matter how many time theses girls (and some dudes) tell me its me, I do not agree.
You see, I'm a single man, and we all know men are hunters, predators who's only concern is to catch its prey.
I personally don't have a "Type" per say, I like all women, Short, Tall, Slim, Round, Black, White, Spanish, Orange, some younger and almost all older, I don't discriminate. So naturally I'm attracted to all different type of women, and many different types of women are attracted to me. Now, some of these women have boyfriends or husbands or whatever it is they call there spouses and this is where it get interesting. See the way I see it is like this: If you have a man, and I come across your path and you choose to give me play then guess what, the cheater in this situation is YOU! That's right I said it. I mean think about it, how could I possibly be cheating if I'm not committed to anyone.
People often say, "Well if you knew she had a man then you are just as wrong as she is for cheating" are you effin serious? C'mon man. Unless the girl I am dealing with is the girlfriend, fiancé, or wife of a close friend or family member (Which I would NEVER under any circumstance violate no matter what) then my loyalty is not to her man, therefore I cannot be wrong for pokin his girl. You see, I'm a straight shooter, I keep it real all the time, and I've said it before, I'll say it again, (Fellas listen up) if you catch your girl cheatin, don't be mad or don't worry bout who it is she was cheatin with. That man has nothin to do with you nor does he owe you anything. The one you need to be mad at is your girl. She's the one who violated you, she's the one who stepped out of the "Home" and "Wrecked" it. You see where I'm goin with this? This is why I can't consider myself a home wrecker. I'm a man like any other, I'm just a squirrel tryna get a nut. You would do the same thing if you were in my shoes.
Don't get me wrong, I don't want ya to think that I soley go for the women who have men, I don't get dressed when I go out and think "Oh man, imma find me a bad joint and I hope she has a man" No, in fact sometimes I don't even know til after I get off of them that they have a man. Your probably thinkin: "Well did you ask if she had a man?" Hell No I didn't ask, what the f+#k does her man have to do with me? I'm tryna bone her, not her man. In other words, she knew what this was, she knew my intentions and she KNEW she had a man, yet she still dealt with me. Now you tell me, who wrecked the home? Was it really me? No.
See if my Home (Relationship) is Robbed (I'm cheated on) and I see no signs of forced entry, or a breaking an entering, then its obvious that the person who robbed me was someone who lives here. Chances are I'm sleeping with the enemy.
I could go on forever with this topic. So for now I'll leave it at that. Feel free to leave me comments here or send me emails: (EnoBull@tmo.blackberry.net) hit me on BBM (pin:2113693f) or leave a FaceBook Comment (Eno Bull) or Tag me in a Tweet (@EnoBull) because I love this topic and will defend my stand til the music stops. I really wanna know how ya feel about it.
So like I said, the true meaning of a HomeWrecker, is he or she within the home, not the one who is passin by, just remember that and all will be fine.
Stay Up, Stay Faithful and Stay Tuned
7 comments:
Hell, nothing for me to say except.. *tapping mic* I co-sign..allllllll of that which was written here!
Your definition of a homewrecker is on point on my book, and therefore you are not one!
DOPE!
ps..you see why you're one of my top 5 bloggers? that heat man!
LOL, GOOD LOOKIN REESY BABY! AS YOU CAN SEE, YOU ARE ALSO IN MY TOP 5, KEEPIN IT REALLY IS REALLY WHAT WE DO!
WELL SAID SO FOR ANYONE WHO GOT MAD AT ME IT AINT ME MAN SO MOVE AND GO WAY!!!!!
Whoa!!! This was a goood one and I couldn't of said it better. Being or partaking in the act of "homewrecking" is such an ambiguous topic there's really no definitive way of explaining it. And in my opinion it's really up to how each individual perceives it. I believe someone can not wreck a home that they don't live in. Yeah someone can come in and fuck shit up but like you said if you are unaware of an already established situation, you can not break what's already in peices. And besides, somebody obviously opened the door to let you in. Now to intentionally deal with someone who is in a relationship...that's obviously a different story. However whichever way you look at it, it takes two to get down. Especially when it comes to being involved intimately, sexually, etc. You can not be obligated to anybody you don't know or don't deal with. Point at chick or dude who is violating their relationship. This is how people get hurt. Therefore, I say feel no type of way if you smashed a chick who has a man. She obviously is not concerned about what's at home. And neither should you. Middle fingers to those who feel otherwise. They must be products of failed relationships or lost their significant others due to their lack of concern for what they had. Shout outs to the "homewreckers." Lmao!
**Boss Lady**
MZSMORES I HEAR YOU, THAT'S WHAT I SAY. ABD MS BOSS LADY, THANK YOU, THAT'S WHAT I BEEN SAYING, I CAN'T WRECK YOUR HOME IF YOU AINT LET ME INTO IT, THEREFORE THE WRECKING CREW IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. LOL BUT THANKS SO MUCH EVERYONE FOR COMMENTING.
my nigga i agree with u to the fullest lol in fact i actually even enjoy the women that i mess with that have a man and shit is always fun to sneak around and is just a sort of feeling that u get that the other guy is not providing her what u can....but that's just me i guess i might be wrong for being this way and i dont really care of being classified as a home-wrecker by other people, which according to ur definition(which i agree with) am not.
-Louie the king.
LOUIE I FULLY AGREE WITH YOU BROTHER... YOU AINT WRONG FOR FEELIN THAT WAY, THAT GOES BACK TO WHAT I SAID ABOUT BEING A PREDATOR, YOU FIND COMFORT AND FUN IN THE HUNT. AND YOU RIGHT, IF PEOPLE CALL YOU A HOME WRECKER, SO WHAT? I DON'T CARE EITHER MY INTENTION WAS TO ADDRESS THE SUBJECT SO THAT PEOPLE HAVE A BETTER UNDERSTANDING AS TO WHO IT IS EXACTLY THAT'S WRECKING THE HOME, BUT IF THEY STILL FEEL ITS ME, SO BE IT.
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