Ladies, Ladies Ladies, this one is for ya.
Fellas feel me on this one.
Imma try to make this one short.
Ladies I have a question. And when I say "Ladies" I mean, Girls, Women, Females period (I don't wanna hear that bs, "That's why you need to mess with women, not girls" ish)
Now ladies, I ask you, what is it that ya see in frontin? Why do ya continue to say things knowin good and Cot Damn well ya don't mean it. What am I talkin about you ask? I'll tell you. I'm talkin bout the "You aint gittin none of this" or the "I'm a good girl" disclaimer lol. Its so cute but honestly, cut it out.
Fellas, tell me ya feel me on this one. Lol.
Perfect example, I've been in situations where a girl told me on the phone prior to comin to visit me: "We not gonna F#*k" or "Don't get any ideas, aint nuttin goin down" and believe it or not, I respect that, I don't believe it, but I respect it. Regardless of her saying that, and without me forcing anything, the moment comes where she is in my room and before you know it she is buckit Nekit on top of me and life is good for the both of us. Lol.
So when girls come and tell me "I'm a good girl" I tell them straight up, "C'Mon baby, all that means to me is you gonna make me work for it still don't make you a good girl tho." Lol.
I mean I'm sayin all this with all due respect, I'm not tryna play ya, I'm just asking why ya do it? Would it really kill you to say somethin like: "I'm feelin you too, imma put it on ya ass when I catch you" I'll admit, I've come across females who have told me such things, but for the most part its always the disclaimer.
Understand, that WHATEVER a man feels for you is not gonna change after you give him the drawers. If he honestly sincerely likes you prior, he will honestly and sincerely like you after, if in his head you are just a JumpOff prior, then guess what, in his head you'll STILL be a JumpOff after. Lol.
So help me out ladies, explain to me why ya give us the Disclaimer.
Stay Up and Stay Tuned.
7 comments:
Hold on.. Lemme clear MY throat and get the playlist going.. Most of the females u are referring too.. They haven't accepted their sexuality.. They are following the beat of everyone else's drum vs. her own. The statement also shows a lack of maturity on her behalf.. WHY? She may honestly feel that she isn't goin to let u pipe.. Yet.. talkn on the fone and seeing that sexiness in person (may) change that...
Also, u have to analyze the comments she has made to u in previous conversations.... We as women do not WANT to be labeled as slore, slut, whore, etc. etc. We are QUICK to judge others & not see the similar actions of our own as an issue. I hope that u cut the chic off.. Or put her immature wanna be Barbie arse on a timeout..
Ladies... U also have to STOP with the bullshyt... Who are you fooling?? NO ONE... U need to convince YOURSELF that u aren't fcukn homie.. Telling him that u aren't... The average dude will tempt u purposely just to BBM me afterward like yeah she gave up the pannies DUMB quick.
Sooo.. yeah in a nutshell.. Only CHILDISH immature chics do that bullshyt.. Step your cookies up girls.. These guys aren't as DUMB as you think
LMAO! GA HEAD R, I HEAR YOU. "We as women do not WANT to be labeled as slore, slut, whore, etc." I'VE ALWAYS KNOWN THIS, AND I UNDERSTAND, BUT I'M SAYIN... EITHER SAY YOU NOT BONIN ME AND DON'T BONE ME, OR KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT, FEEL ME? LOL
Well the reason u may hear the "Ur not gettin none" is because she may b unsure if she wants 2 give it 2 u at that point n time. So she puts it out there so dude won't b disappointed if it doesn't pop off! Now personally...I don't give a f*k about the labels...b/c at the end of the day someone is always gonna have something 2 say! There will always b a hater n the midst! So as long as u respect urself as a woman & carry urself as a woman that's all that matters.N its definitely a maturity issue with the other females who haven't blossomed n2 their sexuality. U also have 2 take society n2 account. As females ur pretty much taught from a young age u can't do what a man does b/c u'll b labeled as a hoe/slut etc. However, I've learned as an grown woman...I can do it better!!!! LOL
Shout out to my fellow cougars who don't have time to play those games...lol ;-)
NO SHOUT OUTS TO YOU MS. ANONYMOUS FOR KEEPIN IT REALER THAN MOST WITH THOSE COMMENTS... I APPRECIATE IT... AND PLEASE DON'T BE SHY TO CONTACT ME DIRECTLY IN PRIVATE VIA FACEBOOK AND OR TWITTER LOL... STAY UP.
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